I sense that some guys are trained by tests.
They want to learn how to bat them away with tactics and techniques.
But eventually they want to be able to just let go and be themselves.
That’s a fantasy, because the testing will never end.
As long as you are a man you will get tested, either by women or society.
Remember there is a difference between testing and bad behaviour.
PermanentGuest said it well: “One should make you laugh; the other should prompt you to turn and walk away”.