Try just speaking to everyone and turning everyone into you. At the gym, school, work, wherever you are, draw people into you. When “people” are girls, turn up the tease. Dont pay attention to the girls attractiveness, let this become your new way of dealing with people. When you are in a 2 or group, feel free to call strangers in and make them part of the conversation.
This is more useful than isolated “cold approaches” and seeds the skills and personality traits deep down in you.
If you are in “on” mode, girls / people will start approaching you as well. So, befriend everybody, game everybody, dominance everybody, comfort everybody, rapport everybody, tease everybody, kino everybody, with you as the constant.
What everybody hates about game is to see a non alpha (read, non worthy man) FAKING attributes and behavior and TRICKING women into thinking he is someone he is not for SEX only.
That that same bite is your own obstacle to learn and articulate the whole thing.
And thatÂ´sÂ what feels wrong / off when you are doing it.
And thatÂ´s why non alphas fear women. Its a natural instinct: the best women are reserved for the alphas. We expect things to work that way.
So rather than learning game: become alpha, and all these girls will expect to be yours and jump in your lap without you having to chase trick or game them individually, and it will feel GOOD and natural for everybody.
If you are high value and it shows in your clothes, demeanor, physical language, tone voice, and you are in a good mood and feeling sexual, you only have to step inside of a bar and you are done.
Find the prettiest girl staring at you and go talk to her. Chill. Dodge a couple of bullets. Make her laugh. Tease her. Take her home and bang her. It will be a good night for both of you and a chance to get to know her better, if you feel like it.
If you dont like “regular bar girls” just find a bar / venue you like. YouÂ´ll find girls you like inside, too.